Q & A

[darkangel5778]

I know this is going to sound bad but bear with me..............
I finally told my husband that I am a psi, he is ok with it, even offered to allow me to feed off of him, but the problem is this, I had went so long without feeding, almost a year respectivly that if I allow myself to feed from him I might hurt him, I even tried to only feed a little but he felt a bit tired the next day.............any ideas???:bat:

[Camazotz]

As long as you're not heavily feeding from him on a regular basis I wouldn't worry too much. Whilst it's great that you don't want to see him suffer any ill effect, if he's just a bit tired the day after your first feed for over a year then really I would say that was to be expected.

What I would say though, is that you need to find yourself other sources as well... feeding from crowds, weather, something else so you're not just consistently relying on one person and also never letting it go for a year without feeding.

There's lot of info on psi feeding on site, but if you have any specific questions please post them.

Cama

[ChadSang]

Awwwww the people who have felt tired the next day or two after being around me the day before.

[darkangel5778]

well I do not think I hurt him that much cause he was fine after that.........shpooing trips were also quite useful:bat:

[twilight]

Just as Cama said, I feed from crowds and various people. only a little here and there so as to not take much from an individual. I usually find myself absorbing their emotions as well... Sometimes its not so bad, but once in awhile I find someone that is feeling sad, or angry about something, and I actually feel that way too. I know I should concentrate more on whom I feed from so I don't feed from the wrong person and feel the way they do.

[darkangel5778]

yeah that is the only bad thing about feeding from ppl who are virtual strangers, their energies are a dice roll as far as the emotions scale and as my freind found out quite painfully sometimes you are unwanted and they are aware of what you are doing and can send it back, that and more. not quite sure what it did really all I knew about was a headache.........but crowds are a dice toss -shrugs- but nature does quite nicely unless I am too drained then I have more energy :bat:

[ChadSang]

Just as Cama said, I feed from crowds and various people. only a little here and there so as to not take much from an individual. I usually find myself absorbing their emotions as well... Sometimes its not so bad, but once in awhile I find someone that is feeling sad, or angry about something, and I actually feel that way too. I know I should concentrate more on whom I feed from so I don't feed from the wrong person and feel the way they do.

Going to the mall can offer the opportunity to feed psy like. So much energy there, but I prefer storms. Ask MLE, it's great for that here along the coast.

[MLE]

It sure as hell is.. I saw some of the most fantastic storms ever out there..

[ChadSang]

You're right MLE, as you well know ............ the coastal storms provide enough energy for anyone.

[darkangel5778]

I definitly agree, storms are very energizing, without all the unpleasant dice roll with a large grouping of humans:dvlish:

[ChadSang]

Damn, I'm jonesing like crazy for a storm. Haven't had one in about a week. Suppose to get some wild ass ones later this week. YEAH!

[RedRaven219]

Ooooo, storms. Yes, quite fun, though I can't seem to feel anything on them anymore or anything else for that matter.

[ChadSang]

Hey Red Raven! Thought you fell off the planet! Still got the rats?

[RedRaven219]

Unfortunately no, I developed a very bad allergy to them and when I broke up with Michael he took them with him. I've been dating Erik for almost 2 1/2 years now. You might remember him, black hair green eyes and spent most of our gathering drawing.

[ChadSang]

Yes, as a matter of fact I do remember Erik. Hot looking dude you lucky gurl LOL

[RedRaven219]

Well thank you very much. He is pretty damn hot, oh and he also tells me to say hi.

[ChadSang]

tell him I said hi and still miss him, even though the only time I ever saw him was at the gathering. He was one of my favs at the gathering and I sincerely mean that .....you fall into that category as well and a very few others I won't mention....well got to mention Elder Stefan. WE shared some important information together.

[Crystalforger]

Back to teh topic of the thread....

Storms are nice. I think we will find next year is a bit more active, Chad. Hang on to your bootstraps. I will agree that mall crowds have plenty of energy.

I have doubts that one can cause permanent damage using psi feeding techniques. You may make them tired, or even ill, but I doubt you can do more than that without long-term exposure. Just my own belief, and not documented, or easily defended.

[darklin]

Hey hunnie I thought id give you my thoughts on this too.
I myself have only just share the fact that iam psi/sang to my partner *sighs with amazing relief*
Luckily I feed regularly from element and crowds and he was used to me taking a little from him as well.
When he became aware of what I was doing he was more than willing to help me in anyway he could.
I sat with him and talked about the different ways of feeding and how they all work to the best of my knowledge.
Being armed with all the facts now he can work with me and understand what’s happening.

He has a fantastic energy around him which seems to be in abundance so he doesn’t really feel any effect apart from it draining him a little and only for a short time but in a good way that arouses him so we both score I guess lol

My advice would be to make sure he understands fully what your doing and make feeding from him regular and for only short periods at a time to begin with then work your way up.
That way he will get used to it and his body will compensate itself for the loss of energy.

[darkangel5778]

my husband knows I am psi..........(and deary me maybe even sang......discovering THAT one was weird).......but yeah my husband is ok with it so long as it is not blood.....he does not mind me psi feeding from him, hell even enjoyable since we are...more intimate...... but he is uncomfortable with sang. He thinks that so long as I feed psi, it should work.......and I agree, I only have a few bouts where I think drawing would help.